I put these 2 together because neither is a party killer but both are customary.  Feeding might be a little more important.  We all like to be happy, and I think my tummy deserves to be happy as well on your special day.  No pressure, but it really is nice to celebrate with you through the lovely tradition of eating. But make sure you warn me if either I cannot eat...life doesn't go too well if we have to make a party happen on an empty stomach.  You understand right? :)

Tipping is slightly less important.  Please don't feel pressured at all, but if you feel I have gone above and beyond your expectations or you're just feeling generous, I will adore you for it.  If I'm doing your wedding I already feel like part of your family, and from my experience, only grandmas tip :) 

Last updated on January 21, 2010 by mark klentzman